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Spoken Piece|| THE ONE

Hey Zamundans.... 
Happy new year!... I guess I had to wait to the 10th to put up a new year'a post init?... 
Sorry for the delay, will try to do better! Love you guys and I hope you enjoy this poem! And let me know if you can relate to some of the lines! 

When am the one, the stupid one that is in the crowd 
The one that has no attribute giving to her 
The one that is not referred to as something 
The one that is slowly pushed in the corner 
The silent fool that nobody calls that in my face but thinks it
The one that her mind is being fucked with and used 
All they need you for is help and using 
The one nobody tells the truth 
The one that forces to keep a relationship alive 
No am not Cinderella am the stupid younger step sister 
The one that helps her big sister get the prince 
For a long time my existence was meaningless 
All I needed was that one power to say NO 
But building up the strength was the difficult part 
You would be surprised at what not having will power can do to you 
One day I saw, I Cindy almost put to death for prince sake.. 
For nothing Cinderella had done.. 
And thats when it happened
The meaning for my life 
I said NO 
I became free 
I found a voice 
Slowly my head popped from my shell 
I began crawling.. Snail 
I got picked up and broken and washed, slim removed 
And I saw the sweetness and the beauty of my existence 
The metaphor to snail here, If I was edible man I would have made someone's stomach happy 
But am not so I make peoples lives happy.. 
But first mine was happy, like a tortoise I was content with cracked back and slow walking acquiring wisdom as I take each step.. 
Today am not the one 
Am not the one pushed in the corner after being used 
Am not the one the force to keep relationship alive 
I have attribute, am not the one who nobody tells the truth 
Cos I will tell it to myself 
The caterpillar is now a freaking butterfly.. 
Butterfly fly away.. 
This piece is like a pot of gold in the fire, 


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