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Diary of a Single girl (Tessy Abdulrazaq)

Hey Zamundans. ..
Happy new week people!... Diary of a single girl is back yooo.... Telzy is back..  enjoy this one! 

Hello guys! Happy New year! I know i've been MIA for a while but it's not my fault, this after school life is trap. As you know tega and I graduated in October and we've been ushered into the adult world, trust me it's not all that it's made out to be *whew* but we thank God for his infinite mercies. Hope you guys have been great tho? 
So this new year, i'll need y'all to contribute to this single girls column, I want us to talk about things asides being single, just everyday situations that affect us and our struggles as a growing woman, so you can just drop a comment about a topic you'll like me to discuss and i'll do just that..kapish? Thanks
So today, we are going to talk about the main purpose of the column, being single..so lately most of my friends and family have been complaining about being single and tired of waiting for the one, most of them are around my age and others much older. I took a moment and thought about it and asked myself what's the rush? Now, i'm guilty of this same attitude of complaining about being single and waiting for the one but I realised i'm still young, I have a whole life ahead of me to wait for the one. To my older single ladies that are whispering, but there's no time for me o, my friend got married last month, my friend got engaged last week, i'm telling you there's time, God is taking his time to send you the one and he's preparing you for the one and he won't orchestrate your meeting until he feels you are both ready for each other and in this impatience of yours, God is secretly blessing you. I know there's pressure from the society and family members but they are not the ones that going to be in the relationship with you so relax. I didn't realise the existence of this pressure until I graduated and everybody started saying 'your wedding is next o' like aunty and uncle let the rice from my graduation party digest first na before you start thinking about my wedding rice. 
Another thing I realised that when you are impatient about finding bae you end up seeing everybody you meet as potential, every guy that chats you up, you are already thinking of what both of you would be like as a couple, I do it sometimes too and it's bad because you end up loosing potential great friends because when they don't meet up to your potential bae standards you start to ignore them or force what's not meant to be.
The most important of all is to seek God's direction while you are waiting or even when you meet a potential, I learnt this very recently and i'm so glad, when you meet someone, pray about it, seek God's opinion and direction and I promise you,you won't regret it. 
I'm glad to have gotten my mojo back, I sense this year is going to be very great for us all, here's to a wonderful 2015 my fabulous ladies! Please don't forget to say topics you'll like us to discuss in the comment section. 
Love always 
Dairy of a single girl

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