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Hey Zamundans 
How are you guys? I hope everyone has been doing great? 
It's a almost the end of 2014, and this year has been the year that I learnt alot of life lessons... I was telling my friend the other day that no one teaches you LIFE.. like no matter how exposed and educated you are, there is no such thing as studying life or school of life.. you only learn with time and experiences... 
My post title was inspired by the amazing fashion blogger Cassie, she has a post about being burnt out and I related soo well to it.. 
These days I have been so fashion burnt out and un inspired cos it has been basically the samething going around.. 
Fashion gets tiring at times but the thing is if you have a personal style, you would be able to come out of being burnt out!... And the cool thing is that your personal style is bound  change so it's okay to go with the flow and how you are feeling about your style *sometimes it maybe hard and chic other times it may be boring and laid back that's okay!* 
The important thing to know is that sometimes just let yourself go and get a needed break... Also the thing with being burnt out is that it's okay not to have it all together sometimes *learnt that the hard way*.. 
It also helps to focus on what is most important which is the inner self and inner beauty *let's be honest this kind of passion can become superficial* So we have to constantly remind ourselves of what is most important to us.. 
May God give us the grace to abide and be re-fueled AMEN! 


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