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Hey Zamundans...
Hope everyone is doing well? This gueat feature is by my very own friend Phylis a.k.a the goat lol. When i read this on her blog i was BLOWN away because it spoke to my heart.. with everything going on in my family.. so i messaged her and i found out that we had almost similar situations and my heart became more at peace because i knew that this kind of trials we facing, other people are facing similar things and they still look up to God like Phylis and her houshold... WHAT A JOY!... I hope you like it too.. even if you are not a christian, peace is for everbody.. Oh also check out her blog


“And the Peace of God which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” – Philippians 4:7


Once again, or should I say as usual, I’m going to allow the spirit to use me, consume my mind and then help me reach out. Amen.

What is Peace?

· A state of tranquility, quiet and harmony.

· A state free of oppressive and unpleasant thoughts.

· Harmony in personal relations.

So I heard this song last Saturday, ‘Comforter’ by Cece Winans.  The chorus of the song  got me thinking especially through this phase I am going through at the moment.

‘You are Comforter, that's who You are to me
Comforter, a name that fits so perfectly
Peace that passes all understanding
Comforter is who You are to me, it's who You are to me’

I lost my auntie a week today and it’s most difficult for me since I saw her, spent time with her and a few hours later she passed away.  I went back to the hospital and there she was …. Dead! The pain was unbearable. A lot run through my head. It still does.

But even amidst this loss, I am comforted; there is this peace that has managed to come to me. There have been countless moments that I have laughed to tears. The pain that comes with separation is inevitable but God is true to his words.

Matthew 5:4

“Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted.”

God is faithful. He has not only comforted my family and I, He has given us peace. Peace that I cannot seem to understand. I have peace because I know my aunt is at a better place, and she will no longer be in pain.  And that’s where Cece’s song comes in. I feel the same way about God. And I really can’t comprehend this soothing peace. But that’s one of the benefits of being a child of God. We get to have joy like a river and peace that surpasses all understanding.

Not to make this too long, I want to talk about being at peace with people. Being at peace with people can bring you this same soothing peace. It doesn’t only apply to people who are mourning.  The bible says in Romans 12:18
“If it be ‘possible’, as much as in you lieth, be at peace with all men”

What this means is that we should try as much as possible to be at peace with everyone.  If this is within us, we must do it. I want to believe God knew that we would have fall outs in our relationships with others but he still encouraged us to try and sort them out. “Be at peace”, in God’s words. This is because God knows what this ‘Peace’ can do for us in place of bitterness. I know this is not easy. We might have people who will make ‘patching up’ difficult for us. Let us try to make it work, do your part and know that something greater awaits you.

This area is a challenge in my life at the moment. Let us all pray and ask the Holy Spirit to help us all who need to fight against this battle. So we may find peace in all areas of our lives. AMEN!


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