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REFLECTING

Hey Zamundans

HAPPY HAPPY NEW YEAR MY LOVES....... hope you gus had a good new year's celebration?.... i had a lot of chicken to eat lol...

something happened in church when it was new year, i started crying i tried to fight the tears but then it just kept pouring down and my brother didn't help my coming to hug me really really tight, that just gave way to the tears i was soo emotional, the reason for my tears was GRATEFULNESS to GOD for ALL that he has done for me in the year of 2013.

In 2013 i overcame FEAR the fear of what will go wrong or what if i don't succeed and living in peoples shadow, that was the first reason i was grateful for. I found my voice in 2013 and i am developing on that voice, i did things i never thought i would be able to do in a thousand years. My eyes became opened to the fact that not everyone liked my progress so it drew me closer to God. I finally figured out what i want to do with my life, i started a business .

I noticed that in that year i became more free to do things and express myself and i accepted a lot of positive criticism, i loved more and was bitter less *which was really my goal*, i forgave easily, laughed more......

None of my siblings died in 2013 in fact we all made significant progress. Even though it was a very very rough year for my mum (she lost her brother AGAIN) was sick most of the time, she still prayed and laughed her way through her pain and struggle *tearing up*. in general my family made it.

I got out of a really really bad emotional circle, of being confused if 'he' loved me or not, trying to hold on to what was never there.
built good friendship; saw true friends and people that genuinely loved me and was happy about my progress and was always there to support and scold if the need be...

I broke out of fear, revamped my blog, even though its still young and still needs a lot of improvement and publicizing, am grateful for every page view and every reader *am very thankful* 

If i go on on why i am grateful for 2013, we wont leave here today.... i am really grateful



HAPPY NEW YEAR ONCE AGAIN PEOPLE I HOPE THIS NEW YEAR BRINGS ALL WE PRAY AND EXPECT AND NONE OF US WILL DIE IN JESUS NAME.....  Talk soon

                xoxoxo TEGA

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