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Hello beautiful Zamundan peeps.... how was ya weekend pipos?

So my post for the day is about LOVE, RELATIONSHIP AND SEX!!!.... People have askdd me to talk about it, and am like.... hunh.... i aint no love guru am just a lady growing up and getting old lol. Anywho i gat a friend working on a proper post for this kinda topic but before then i would just love to ask these questions.. so please share your opinion  you never know you might actually be helping someone... So here goes the questions

● Does true love exist, and if it does can it happen more than once?

 ● Just because 'everybody' is having sex before marriage does it make it right? * someone told me that God is an evolving God soo...*

●Is a girl ever in a ready state to date, is dere ever a right time

●Does love make you do crazy things, and crazy things like what?

●Is relationship a job, does it require work?

● How do you love someone when you dont believe in yourself?

● Is it true that opposite pools attracts when it comes to humans?

●What is the right age to tell your lil ones about sex?

●Has society and family made marriage a compulsory part of our lives?

●Does being alone means you are lonely?

 ●Can you love someone who is of a different religion than yours?

●Is true love really hard to find?

●How do you know he/she loves you?

●How do you show love to someone?

These are ma questions.... please drop a comment yoo and answer the ones you can answer. Thanks for the blog loving peeps!!!!!

xoxo tegalicocious Queen of Zamunda lol


  1. Hmmm, nice questions..

  2. I'm just going to answer a few of the questions because if I answer all I'll be going on and on,lol @ God is an evolving God na so I hear am, as for pre marital sex, for us Muslims and christians, our holy book says it is wrong and because everyone is doing it does not make it right,I'm cynical about love so I can't say if true love really exists, I don't know if there's ever a 'ready time' I just believe if you find someone that you want to be with and you feel you are mature enough to handle a relationship then go for it. And true to what you might have heard, love does make you do some crazy shii (I would know, lol)being alone doesn't mean you are lonely, it just means you are confident enough to be your own person (and this is not a consolation for the single ladies,lol) and to the last question before I ramble on too much, when you truly, deeply love someone, you don't need a way to show them, it just flows naturally. (Excuse me for my rambling, therapist in training, lol)

  3. Heyyyooo tessy!!!!! are you PREACHING OR ARE YOU PREACHING???!!

  4. Hi darling.... I'm following you on GFC, I hope you will do the same!!!


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