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Hello beautiful people,
 HAPPY NEW MONTH!!!!....... the first half of the year is gone; and am writing this post to give you guys something to think about.
 Am sure in the begining of the year most of us made new year resolutions...*well i stopped doing that some years ago* i stopped because i never got through to even the middle of january *please dnt roll your eyes, half of you dnt even make it to the next two days*. i decided to change it to new month resolutions; instead of puttin so much pressure on myself to achieve something for the year, i decided to tk it one step at a time; one day at a time.
 So yesterday i asked myself 'what have you accomplished from the begining of the year till now, what can you be proud of for the first half of the year?'......and i am asking you guys the same question now, have you made yourself better this year?, some of you think i am talking of only physical things,,,,,,,,,,,NO  thats not my point  i am talking of your life in general.
 If u havent done anything for yourself from the begining of this year, it is not too late you still have 6 more months to go.... make your life count brothers and sisters lol , dnt just exist on planet earth LIVE!!!!!!. after Y.O.L.O.......
 Some simple advice from a sister on some ways you can improve your life ,,,,,,,,,
 Decide to love more
 Stop getting angry all the time. dnt let people take the better part of your time by annoying you; forgive and let it go
 Take bold steps *talents will never be discovered if you sit on your couch and do nothing about it!.
 Laugh a lot more often than you did before, find the humor in the most difficult situations
 Device a copping mechanisms to handle your sad moments and bad times
 When trials and tribulations come *side note* which has taking the better part of my year,,,,, LOOK UNTO GOD WHO IS ABLE TO SUSTAIN AND HELP YOU THROUGH IT. It will end in PRAISES.
 If you havent be REDEEMED by the LORD..... my dear DO SOOOO NOW!!!!!.
 I cannot stress this point enough GET A GOOD SUPPORT SYSTEM!!!!!!!!!, if someone is causing pain and harm in your life......LET THEM OUT OF IT!!!!!!!!!....
 Life is complicated so dont make it more complicated for yoursleves.

LOVE PEACE AND JOY BE WITH YA'ALL.....................

                      love always!!!!!!!


  1. I have accomplished quite a lot this year already [Admission, Business/Jobs,Baptism,Confirmation(soon),General Well-being]...all these are things I've been trying to achieve for years now; so I know what you mean by "LOOK UNTO GOD WHO IS ABLE TO SUSTAIN AND HELP YOU THROUGH IT".
    My life has never been better. <3

  2. I like this! And to add to what you have said,most of all be thankful to God no matter what you have achieved or hoping o achieve! Be thankful for every little thing. Be thankful that you are alive and you can still do whatever you haven't achieved

  3. thank you miss posh and tessy


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